
Being accused of domestic violence is one of the most challenging and alarming experiences a parent can face, especially when the accusation puts your relationship and time with your children at risk. In Alabama, the stakes feel even higher because a domestic violence charge can impact not only your criminal record but also your custody rights.
Questions about whether you’ll lose custody, only see your children during supervised visits, or lose access to them altogether are understandable—and you’re not alone in thinking this. While handling a domestic violence accusation involves both criminal and family court matters, understanding how the Power of Representation can work for you may help address both issues in your favor.
An Accusation is NOT the Same as a Conviction
If you’ve been accused of domestic violence, it’s crucial to remember that an accusation alone doesn’t determine your guilt or influence your right to custody automatically. Many parents facing such allegations feel they’ve already lost the battle, but that’s not the case. An accusation is simply that—an accusation, not a conviction. Alabama courts may take such accusations seriously, especially because of the potential impact on children, but they also recognize your right to defend yourself fully.
Unfortunately, people sometimes use domestic violence accusations as a way to win over custody of their children, and that’s wrong. It’s wrong to make such accusations for leverage, and you deserve the chance to fight back. Without a conviction, no one should automatically assume guilt. You are not guilty and deserve the chance to speak up for yourself. Of course, the courts will tread lightly and take these accusations seriously. We understand this can create a perception of being the underdog in your Alabama child custody case, but we’re here to fight and make sure you have the Power of Representation on your side. Do not give up and assume all hope is lost, no matter how bad things look right now.
Violence is a Major Factor in Alabama Child Custody Cases If Proven
We do want to note that Alabama family laws presume that anyone who has been convicted of domestic violence should, by default, not have custody of their children. There are some circumstances where you may be able to defeat this default judgment, but it’s an uphill battle.
What this means for you is that you may have to accept a temporary setback from an emergency order, but don’t worry; there is still time to fight back and get the time with your children that you deserve.
If you’re facing a domestic violence accusation that could affect your custody rights, contact the team at John M. Totten, P.C., in Athens, Alabama. We understand the urgency and significance of your concerns and are here to stand by you. Schedule a consultation to discuss how to protect your rights as a parent and build a path forward for you and your children.
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