Can You Move With Your Kids After Divorce in Alabama? What the Law Says


Executive Summary: In Alabama, if a parent wants to move more than 60 miles or out of state with their child after divorce, they must give written notice 45 days in advance. The other parent has 30 days to object. Courts then decide based on the best interests of the child. Skipping this process can lead to custody changes or legal trouble. Relocation after divorce is legal, but only if done the right way.


You got divorced. You followed the parenting plan. Now, something’s changed. You got a job offer in another city, need to be closer to family, or found a better school district. Whatever the reason, you’re thinking about moving with your kids.

But if you’re the custodial parent in Alabama, relocation isn’t as simple as packing up and leaving. You may need court approval even if you’re the one who’s always had primary custody. Here’s what Alabama law says about relocating with children after divorce.

Alabama’s Relocation Law

In Alabama, the Parent-Child Relationship Protection Act sets the rules for moving with children after divorce. The law applies when a parent wants to move:

  • More than 60 miles away from the other parent, or
  • Out of state

If you’re the one planning to move, you’re required to give the other parent written notice at least 45 days in advance. That notice must include:

  • The new address and phone number
  • The reason for the move
  • The proposed date of relocation
  • A proposal for a new custody or visitation schedule

The other parent then has 30 days to object.

Can the Other Parent Block the Move?

Yes. If the non-relocating parent disagrees with the move, they can file an objection with the court. Once that happens, a judge decides whether the move can go forward and whether custody or visitation should be modified.

The court’s focus is always on the best interests of the child. The judge will look at:

  • Why the parent wants to move
  • How the move would affect the child’s relationship with the other parent
  • Whether the move improves the child’s quality of life (school, housing, safety, etc.)
  • Each parent’s current involvement in the child’s life
  • The child’s ties to the current community (friends, school, extended family)
  • The age and needs of the child

No single factor decides the case. The court weighs everything together to make the final call.

What If You Don’t Follow the Process?

If you move your child without giving notice or without court approval, you could face serious consequences:

  • You may be found in contempt of court
  • The judge may change custody to the other parent
  • You could damage your standing in future custody decisions

Even if the move seems reasonable, skipping the required steps can work against you.

How to Build a Strong Relocation Case

If you plan to relocate and expect a challenge, it helps to prepare. Courts look for clear, practical reasons for the move, not emotional arguments or vague plans.

Here’s what can help:

  • A letter from your new employer showing a better salary or job stability
  • Housing information showing a safer or more affordable area
  • School ratings and activity options for your child
  • A plan for how the other parent can maintain meaningful contact (phone, video, holidays, summer visits, etc.)

Being able to show how the move benefits the child, not just you, can make a difference.

Can Custody Be Switched If the Move Is Denied?

Yes. If the court believes that staying with the current custodial parent would hurt the child’s relationship with the other parent or that the move is not in the child’s best interest, it may grant primary custody to the parent who is staying.

That’s why relocation cases can quickly become contested custody battles. Even parents who’ve never missed a visitation may find themselves at risk of losing time with their kids if they don’t act quickly.

Moving after divorce isn’t just a personal decision. It’s a legal one. In Alabama, if you want to relocate with your children, the law gives the other parent a chance to object, and a judge the power to decide.

At John M. Totten, P.C., we’ve helped parents across Alabama handle relocation cases the right way, whether they’re trying to move or trying to keep their children close. If a move is on the table, make sure your rights and your child’s future are protected.

John M. Totten